Alkisah kedua rekanku ini mengarungi bahtera keluarganya selama 6 tahun lamanya dan telah di karuniai 2 orang anak yang lutchu n imuut. Sedari awal mereka menikah memang ada beberapa saja pertentangan dari sang ibu pihak laki-laki sehingga urusan keluarga mereka berdua tidak lepas dari campur tangan sang ibu laki-laki. Yah memang namanya orangtua ya sudah seharusnya membimbing dan memberi masukan kepada keluarga anaknya agar tidak salah jalan atau salah mengambil suatu keputusan.
Yang menjadi disayangkan adalah jika ternyata sang orang tua terlalu membimbing keluarga anaknya maka yang terjadi sebaliknya bukan keluarga sang anak semakin rukun dan tentram malah menjadi masalah ( Oopss ) yah itulah yang terjadi cekcok sering terjadi meskipun sang istri selalu mengalah demi menghormati suami sebagai kepala keluarga tapi, akhirnya jiwa si istripun berontak. Dan itu puncaknya saat mereka berdua beradu argumen soal anak mereka yang dititipkan di kampung sedang membutuhkan susu dan kebetulan keluarga si istri yang selama ini dengan senang hati merawat anak-anak mereka sedang ada masalah keuangan sehingga memberikan kabar kepada mereka berdua untuk mengirimkan uang untuk membeli susu sang cucu. Alhasil si ibu laki-laki yang mendengar masalah ini mengatakan kepada mereka; ' Ya sudah kalo memang kalian nggak ada uang sementara jual saja perhiasan anak kalian nanti kalau sudah ada rezeki ya beli lagi..." demikian katanya, sepintas kata si ibu tadi benar adanya buat apa ambil pusing kalau memang tidak ada uang namun, apakah tega hati seorang ibu membiarkan menjual suatu barang yang sudah di hadiahkan buat anaknya harus dijual. Tentunya tidak..kan ? Dan itulah yang terjadi salahnya lagi sang suami kurang berhati besar dan dewasa mengiyakan perkataan sang ibu begitu saja. Dan akhirnya pertengkara mulut jadi bertambah hebat sampai keluar ucapan yang sangat di sesalkan PISAH....!!!
Saudaraku.....apakah kita mudah terjebak dalam suatu kondisi seperti ini ? Kondisi dimana kita butuh untuk mencari jawaban atas masalah dalam keluarga kita yang masih muda, gampang mengambil keputusan berdasarkan emosional dan persepsi praduga... Ya ini adalah kondisi dilematis ketika kita berharap dengan bertanya, mencari jawaban dari yang lebih dahulu merasakan pahit manis dan asam garamnya kehidupan rumahtangga bukan mendapatkan jawaban , solusi yang mencerahkan namun sebaliknya menjerumuskan. Dan sudah selayaknya pula kita yang mencari jawaban menelaah kembali apakah sudah tepat sekali jawaban yang disampaikan atau apakah tidak sebaiknya mencari lagi jawaban-jawaban yang bisa diambil kepada orang lain tentunya.
Akhirnya saya bermunajat kepada-Nya semoga apapun problematika permasalahan yang terjadi dikehidupan Alloh senantiasa memberikan jalan petunjuk hidayah serta inayah kepada kita semua....Astaghfirulloh Ya Rob Kami hamba-Mu yang penuh kekurangan ini hanya rahmat dan kasih sayang Engkaulah pengobat dahaga jiwa ini.....Amiiieen...
Subhanalloh, sacred Maha engaku ya RAB far from the weaknesses and omissions of his creatures. This time I want to tell the story laments life in the household of two people of my best friends are still youthful, emotional and temperamental (Hmm not very. far is it from me ... hehehe; Astaghfirulloh I'm sorry my friend do'nt mean Ghibah but this mudah2an to be a very valuable lesson for life ... Amiiien).
Once both my partner is wading Ark family for six years and has been in karuniai two children who lutchu n imuut. From the beginning they were married there just some opposition from the mother party of men so that their family affairs were not free from interference by the mother of men. Well yes indeed his parents should guide and advise the family of his son to avoid taking the wrong path or wrong decisions.
The unfortunate fact is that if the parents are too family guide their children then the opposite is not the child's family more harmonious and peaceful in fact become a problem (Oopss) well that's what happened bicker often happens though his wife was always conceded in deference to her husband as head of the family but , finally the istripun rebel soul. And it's peak when the two of them argue about who entrusted their children in the ward was in need of milk and the family happened to the wife who had been happy to take care of their children are no financial issues that give the word to them both to send the money to buy milk the grandson. As a result of the mother of men who heard of this problem, told them: 'Well if you do not have money just selling jewelry kids while you guys later if there are sustenance yes buy again ... "he said, passing the mother said was true there why bother if there is no money yet, whether the heart to let the heart of a mother who had to sell an item in a gift for his son to be sold. Surely not .. right? And that's what's wrong with her husband more or less a big heart and an adult yes the mother's words for granted. And finally pertengkara mouth so great getting to get out the word that is in regret severance ....!!!
My Brother ..... whether it is easy to get stuck in a situation like this? Condition where we need to find answers to problems in our families who are young, easy to make decisions based on emotional perception and presumption ... Yes this is a condition of a dilemma when we wish to ask, seek answers from the earlier of sweet and bitter taste of acid salts family life is not getting answers, solutions that enlighten but instead plunges. And already we are looking for should also review the answers are correct if all answers are submitted, or if not should look for more answers that can be taken to another course.
Finally I told him bermunajat any problematic issues that may occur dikehidupan Allah continues to provide guidance and aid road directions to us all .... Astaghfirulloh Yes Rob We are full of thy servant in this lack of grace and love You are the healer was thirsty soul. Amiiieen .... ...
Subhanalloh, sacred Maha engaku ya RAB far from the weaknesses and omissions of his creatures. This time I want to tell the story laments life in the household of two people of my best friends are still youthful, emotional and temperamental (Hmm not very. far is it from me ... hehehe; Astaghfirulloh I'm sorry my friend do'nt mean Ghibah but this mudah2an to be a very valuable lesson for life ... Amiiien).
Once both my partner is wading Ark family for six years and has been in karuniai two children who lutchu n imuut. From the beginning they were married there just some opposition from the mother party of men so that their family affairs were not free from interference by the mother of men. Well yes indeed his parents should guide and advise the family of his son to avoid taking the wrong path or wrong decisions.
The unfortunate fact is that if the parents are too family guide their children then the opposite is not the child's family more harmonious and peaceful in fact become a problem (Oopss) well that's what happened bicker often happens though his wife was always conceded in deference to her husband as head of the family but , finally the istripun rebel soul. And it's peak when the two of them argue about who entrusted their children in the ward was in need of milk and the family happened to the wife who had been happy to take care of their children are no financial issues that give the word to them both to send the money to buy milk the grandson. As a result of the mother of men who heard of this problem, told them: 'Well if you do not have money just selling jewelry kids while you guys later if there are sustenance yes buy again ... "he said, passing the mother said was true there why bother if there is no money yet, whether the heart to let the heart of a mother who had to sell an item in a gift for his son to be sold. Surely not .. right? And that's what's wrong with her husband more or less a big heart and an adult yes the mother's words for granted. And finally pertengkara mouth so great getting to get out the word that is in regret severance ....!!!
My Brother ..... whether it is easy to get stuck in a situation like this? Condition where we need to find answers to problems in our families who are young, easy to make decisions based on emotional perception and presumption ... Yes this is a condition of a dilemma when we wish to ask, seek answers from the earlier of sweet and bitter taste of acid salts family life is not getting answers, solutions that enlighten but instead plunges. And already we are looking for should also review the answers are correct if all answers are submitted, or if not should look for more answers that can be taken to another course.
Finally I told him bermunajat any problematic issues that may occur dikehidupan Allah continues to provide guidance and aid road directions to us all .... Astaghfirulloh Yes Rob We are full of thy servant in this lack of grace and love You are the healer was thirsty soul. Amiiieen .... ...
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